It’s funny to think about, but male masturbation is something that many guys find hard to talk about. Even though it’s a completely natural thing, there are so many worries that come with the taboo of self pleasure. But when it comes to male masturbation, you don’t have to keep it secret. You can actually make it something exciting and sexy by learning to tease yourself with tips and tricks.
I’m sure most of us have been there... you get turned on by the thought of something, you find the idea incredibly alluring, but when you actually get down to it, you can’t seem to quite get it right. That’s when it becomes a frustrating experience and something that you’d rather avoid. But I’m here to tell you, it doesn’t have to be that way!
One of the easiest ways to get into the mood is to set the scene. Have a comfortable spot (I like to lie down in my bed). Find some music that you can get into; I’m always a fan of funk and soul. Then, if you want to take it up a notch, why not add some scented candles, sex dolls or pick up some massage oil. The ambience can really help you get into the mood of it, as long as it doesn’t become too much of a distraction.
Once you have the atmosphere taken care of, it’s time to focus on your body. And by that I mean simply to be present and aware of what your body is feeling. Don’t rush this, take your time to explore and savour the sensations. Apparently, a man’s body needs at least 10 minutes before it can reach an orgasm, so don’t be too hard on yourself to get there quickly.
The next tip is to build up the tease. This part might take a bit more practice, but it can be a lot of fun! Just simply prolonging the pleasure will lead to an even bigger release. Try slowing down your strokes when your body starts to become tense. Take breaks when it feels good to do so, and switch up your motions to keep the feeling fresh and stimulating.
To spice things up even further, try incorporating something new. How about exploring with sex toys such as a cock ring or vibrator? Or you might even be up for exploring with other types of objects. They can be anything that won’t cause any harm or discomfort. Trust me, it can make for a unique and totally fun experience.
Finally, here’s a last tip that I’ve learned over the years. Enjoy the experience, don’t rush it. Make sure you’re taking your time to enjoy the sensations in the moment. And no matter how frustrated you may become, stay positive and trust that it’ll get better over time. If you practice regularly, male masturbation can actually be one of the most satisfying experiences of your life, so give it a try.